Ok, alec is this guy at my school whos , no offense to guys, fragile male ego is tarneshed by rumors. Honestly both of us are involved in this but he takes it so seriously. I mean if it were just me I would ignore it but it involves him too. And because of that I find myself defending myself against it, and checking his reactions. I mean why would i need his approval. I guess he cares what other people think way too much.